Don't ever fall in love with your best friend if you are opposite in sex(Recommended)

Falling in love with your best friend is not amazing as it sounds,sure they know you better and probably won't hurt you but still it is a risky situation especially if they don't feel the same way.

Reasons why you shouldn't fall in love with your best friend


1: Its not certain that they will feel the same way about you and that will hurt you alot when you find out and probably make you wanna quit the great friendship you were having with each other.

2:Things become complicated when
you fall in love with your best friend,you start being jealous than before and then start wanting affections attached.All this will make you not to be her best friend but more like some guy/girl who wants to date her/him.

3:Things are never the same once you find out they don't feel the same,you might end up breaking the friendship bond and soon he/she will start feeling uncomfortable around you.

4:Even if it worked out and you later broke up,there is no way you guys can be besties again.


How to avoid falling in love with your best friend(him/her)


1: When you start to feel like you are having feelings for them,don't let them know,hide it till you are sure about what you feeling. Once you  are sure,ask them in playful way how they would handle a situation where you fall in love with them.The answer should be able to tell you how they feel about you.


2: If you know there is no chance for you guys,then give them 3 days apart, not totally tho but just limit your time with them for 3 days and during those 3 days ,make it very clear to yourself that you are just buddies and you love the friendship you share.Don't blame yourself for the feelings,if you can't get rid of them,then just love them unconditionally but never tell them you do love them.

3: Go out,socialise with new people,meet new friends but don't make them replace your best friend,just  keep them close for support and believe someday you will meet someone you will be everything to. No matter the pain,don't stop pusshing forward,you have goals to accomplish so don't let feelings get in the way,share with someone who really cares about you if the pain becomes overwhelming,someone who understands and is going to hold you through.





Author:Edegware kluivert





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